and the answer to that would be ..
the man i've been living with for 25 year, of course ..
he's highly intelligent with a sharp wit, retains all kinds of useless trivia, loves music, loves art, has a warped sense of humor... oh, and he enjoys a good beer .. ;) ..
he's a devoted father, faithful husband, works hard, he gives good backrubs, footrubs .. and, ummm other stuff like that ..
i think he's very nice looking, what with those steely blue eyes, his graying blondish hair, the graying beard .. he gets handsomer as he ages ..
he's not always patient, sometimes short tempered ..
but then again, so am i ..